When my daughter was in kindergarten, I relayed to my boss something undesirable that she did.

“Where does she get this from? I just don’t understand.” I insisted.

My boss laughed. By the look on my face, he quickly realized I was not joking.

“You’re serious?” He said.

“Yes!” I said emphatically.

Silence. I walked out of his office and thought about it all day. When I got home that night, I told my husband what happened. “Please tell me … do I do that? Does she get it from me?”

He waited a moment looking gently at me, and then said softly, “Honey … you’re getting better.”

I appreciate greatly his honesty. It was after that moment that I took the not-so-desirable behaviors or attitudes I saw in my daughter and put them to thought and prayer asking, “Do I do this?” The majority of the time, I was guilty.

Have you ever had one of those moments where you realized your child is mimicking you? Usually they don’t pick up on the magnificent qualities we possess. Instead they pick up on the little irritating things we tend to not see ourselves.

Our children are a mirror for us. We cannot do one thing and expect they will not follow suit. They watch our every action, move, behavior, and attitude — they are great copycats.

Let’s work hard to be a great example for our children.

Your example is much more powerful than anything you can ever say. — Elisabeth Elliot