This week on our Spring break, I’ve thought about a specific day years ago when my daughter taught me the importance of slowing down. It was a beautiful summer day and I was busy with a task.
“Come outside Mommy,” my elementary-aged daughter said, “I made something special for you.”
I walked into the backyard and there was a make-shift bungalow attached to our large tree.
“You have to lie down here,” she said motioning to the beach towel placed in front of the tree.
I lay down, looked around, and complimented her on the creative shelter. I started to get up to leave so I could continue my task indoors.
“You can’t leave yet. I’m not done,” she said.
I lay back down and she began to fan me with a broken tree branch. “Isn’t this relaxing, Mommy?”
As I smiled, it hit me how anxious I was to rush off to a task rather than savor these precious moments. I stopped and just took it all in. She had no agenda other than provide me a place where I could rest, relax, and just be.
Away from my mom-duty distractions, I looked up at the tree reaching towards the sky and saw the beauty of God’s creation. Fascinated, I looked closely at the aging bark and was amazed by how the tree formed around the boards secured above. I thought about all the many memories created around this tree, the many children who climbed and swung on it, and the joy and laughter surrounding nature’s jungle gym. I almost missed this.
“My turn,” my daughter said interrupting my lingering thoughts. I got up, thanked her, and gave her a big hug letting her know what a special gift that was to me. She smiled.
I’ve forgotten the unimportant mom-task I disregarded, but I’ll never forget the scenes and lesson learned that day. I’m glad I didn’t miss it!
Rest is not idleness,
and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer’s day,
listening to the murmur of the water,
or watching the clouds float across the sky,
is by no means a waste of time. ~J. Lubbock
Sue
This is such a good reminder! I try to keep perspective in each day, but it is amazing to ne how we put so much emphasis on our “to-do” lists and what we accomplished in our day. Yet, choosing to invest in a life will be so much more rewarding than any project we finished or list we plowed through. Thanks again for the great reminder! Hugs and love!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dj
Love the new website look, Karla. Glad to see you’re still writing groovy stuff.